Some people really mess up their chances of getting their ex back by making some very foolish mistakes in the process. So, it is my duty to give you some short tips and suggestions for winning your ex back before you lose her by making the wrong decisions. Before you begin thinking about how to get your ex back in the next few weeks, make sure your reasons for wanting to rekindle the relationship are clear. If you can not find any good reasons for reigniting the relationship, then do not do it. When you’re analyzing the problem it is necessary to be truthful with yourself in recalling how the relationship worked. You need to figure out if you were committing yourself to the relationship or if you were simply using your girlfriend to prove to yourself that you’re attractive to women. If the latter scenario was your reason, then you need to make some major changes before reconciling.